15 year old dating a 20 year old
Many parents in this situation fear that their 16-year-old will become pregnant or that her heart will be broken by this young man.These are all valid questions and make the situation difficult to handle.
If you do not, she is going to learn that you don't respect her feelings - they don't matter to you, she has to fight you to get what she wants and that love is hurtful. I don't think she is just saying she hates you or that she thinks you hate her, she is most likely feeling a little bit of it.
and possibly getting pregnant, perhaps say she can see him but only when you're around - come over for dinner, studying, hanging out while you're there and visible at all times. If they wish to go to a movie or dinner - drive them and accompany them, never leaving them out of your sight. He may grow wary of mom always being around and leave."Denise Witmer's thoughts: I agree with cstone360.
The mom could try and forbid it, but has no way of doing what she would need to do to enforce it. Keep lines of communication open with your daughter, talking to her often about sex, love, family values and teen pregnancy.
This mother is seeking advice about her soon to be 17-year-old daughter's relationship with a 21-year-old man.
Her daughter was on the right track in school, getting straight A's and had no behavioral problems.